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Finding Your Special Someone

admin — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 07:05:32 +0000

How do you find your special someone??

Chances are unless you are very lucky you will go thru many different relationships before you find your special someone. Finding your sole mate is like gambling. In poker and blackjack you may have to play dozens of hands until you get a winning hand, and it is the same with relationships.

During your life you will probably meet some people who seem like they may be the one, or that they are close, but still have the feeling that something else is missing. My advice is that if you are not happy, because something seems like it is missing, then it usually is not right.

Before I found my special someone, I was in a relationship for over 10 years, and I thought everything was great, until I started to seriously consider getting married. Then I noticed that we had so little in common and in reality wanted so many different things out of life and one day we both realized there was much about each of us that we both wanted from someone, but it was not us that we wanted.

Then one day I decided I had enough of trying to go to clubs and bars to meet people. I was sick and tired of trying to find someone in the time it takes to finish a drink. It always seemed the ladies I would meet were all wrong for me, or they seemed great after talking to them for 5 minutes but they seemed to have no interest in me.

Then one day I had an idea, it was not an original idea but I decided to use the internet to try to find the right person for me. So I proceeded to make a myspace profile. On this page I tried to put the real me and not the funny guy trying to be charming that was looking for love at the bar.

And as I would at the poker rooms I went all in, I poured my heart and sole into this. I wrote what I wanted and wrote down who I truly think I am and not who I want to be, and I was rewarded by 1 email responding to my site.

It was amazing; the response I got was like a dream. Imagine you are sitting in a Las Vegas casino playing poker. You are down to your last few dollars, you go all in and you wind up being dealt a Royal Flush, and suddenly the sky is bluer, the grass is greener, and all your worries seem to just fade away.

At first things were a little awkward for the both of us. We decided to hold of on actually meeting until we got to know each other first. We spent a month just talking everyday on the internet. You can really open up to someone and show them the real you and not have to worry about rejection on the internet, after all you are just a faceless ghost, and if things don’t work out you could be sitting next to her on the bus one day without ever knowing it.

The key to finding happiness is realizing you are going to bust more then you are going to get blackjack, but you must keep trying, trying to remember you only need to find the real thing once.

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What gifts should I get for my girlfriend?

admin — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 11:34:07 +0000

Whether you’re buying for the holidays, birthdays or special occasions, girlfriend gift ideas can be hard to come buy.

Here’s a list of top gift ideas.

Girlfriend Gift Ideas

Unless this is your first girlfriend, I’ll assume you know jewelry tops the list of best girlfriend gift ideas. That being the case, we’ll skip to non-jewelry ideas you can afford. You can find all of these gift ideas online by just searching for them on your search engine of choice.

1. 1,000 Thread Count Sheets

This is a serious luxury item. The softness of a sheet is determined by the thread count. Thread counts are the number of horizontal and vertical threads in one square inch of sheet. Typical thread counts are from 70 to 340 or so. 1,000 thread counts are so soft she will lose her mind. She might never get out of bed! Expect to pay $200 for this pampering girlfriend gift.

2. Down Memory Foam Slippers

Slippers? Yes, but not just any slippers. It is winter and she needs something comfortable and warm. The slippers conform to her feet and are made with duck down. They are super warm and, unlike other slippers, can be worn both indoors and outdoors. Expect to pay $45 or so with online retailers.

3. Eyesseuse

The grind of daily life can get her in a bad mood by the time she comes home. This, of course, is bad news for you what with the headaches and all. The Eyesseuse comes to the rescue. The device is worn over the eyes like ski goggles. The device then applies heat, pulses and air pressure to the area around her eyes.

This promotes blood circulation and relieves stress around the eye area. Essentially, it is a massage for her eyes and she’ll be feeling chipper in no time. Expect to pay in the range of $50 for this gift.

4. Nomad Writing Journals

If she loves the outdoors or traveling, Nomad Writing Journals make great gifts. These journals are tailored to activities such as travel, fly fishing, bird watching, backpacking, camping, rock climbing and so on. They come with or without a case and provide writing space as well as cues for writing down important information.

A great keepsake for her to preserve travel and outdoor experiences. The journals cost as low as $9 without waterproof case and $25 with case.

These girlfriend gift ideas should give a good starting place for buying your girlfriend gifts.

Just don’t forget the jewelry!

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How to attract a girl?

admin — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 08:28:38 +0000

500SecretsAboutGirls.com: From the time that they’re little girls, women’s imaginations are filled with dreams of romance.

They have make-believe weddings with their dolls and teddy bears, they get crushes on boys (while boys are still more interested in building forts than stealing kisses), and even as adults they swoon over “chick flicks” about star-crossed lovers who beat the odds and find everlasting bliss in each others’ arms.

It can put a lot of pressure on a guy, figuring out just what women want in the romance department – is it all just candy and flowers?

What do women want from romance?

Tip Number 1: They want your complete attention.

A truly romantic gesture is one that lets a woman know that you were thinking of her, and only of her.

Anyone can buy flowers – heck, you can even get them at the supermarket. But a more romantic gesture is to buy her favorite flowers, and have them delivered to her office (where she can show them off to her jealous co-workers, of course).

Even more romantic is to show up at her place of work at closing time holding that big bunch flowers yourself, with a car waiting to take her to her favorite restaurant. Just remember that it’s not the flowers that are romantic – it is knowing what her favorite flower is, and making a grand gesture that is devoted purely to her.

Tip number 2: They want to know that you pay attention – and remember.

As I just mentioned about the flowers, romance isn’t about empty gestures.

As a guy, you may think that being romantic has to involve candlelight and roses, but anything you do that is thoughtful and unexpected is romantic.

Picking up an entire box of her favorite kind of ballpoint pen when you are at the office supply store is romantic.

Getting her some thick, fuzzy socks because the weather has turned cold, or bringing one of her favorite movies on DVD, or replacing her shampoo because you used some and saw it was getting low.

These things show that you think about her and, to women, that the main thing that romance is all about.

Tip number 3: They want to feel beautiful.

One of the best parts about romance is that it makes women feel desirable. Current research shows that women as young as ten suffer from negative body-image, and few women feel really good about their appearance most of the time.

But when she is being wined and dined by a new suitor, a woman feels pretty and special – and if she does not, the romance is not going to last long.

So tell her that her hair looks like velvet, that her skin is the softest you have ever touched, and that her eyes are like deep, glistening pools.

Tell her every complimentary thing that pops into your head, because this is the time to make her feel like a sexy goddess – and she will show her appreciation for your efforts.

Tip number 4: They want to be surprised.

Whether you have just started dating or you have been together for years, the key to romance is to keep her guessing. If a weekend trip together takes you past a small, family-run winery, stop in and enjoy an hour of wine-tasting – because doing something fun on the spur of the moment is romantic.

Stop by her office with lunch in the middle of the week, or just put a chocolate on her pillow so she will find it when she goes to bed. We all get bogged down with schedules and responsibilities, and it is tempting to take the easy road when it comes to dating and romance.

But to be truly romantic, you need to put a little thought into doing things that are fun and creative.

Tip number 5: They want to feel loved.

It is hard for men to understand, but women need regular reinforcement that they are loved, because they worry that their partner will fall out of love and leave.

Often, this fear is entirely irrational, but if the man they’re with does not say or do things to let her k now she still has his heart, she may fear the worst.

So tell her that she looks great in a certain dress, or that you love the smell of her perfume on her neck. Take her out to a nice restaurant for no reason in the middle of the week, and lay a rose on her side of the bed once in awhile.

Do not assume that she knows you love her simply because you’re still around – make her feel how much you care by acting like a man in love and treating her like someone who’s heart must be won again and again.

Some of the longest lasting marriages are those where each partner made sure the other knew how passionately they were loved, no matter how long they had been together. So keep the spark of romance alive!

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